Just as Bruce Banner changes into the Hulk you too can change from the life you’re living now to being a confident man using these confidence building techniques. No more Mr. Shy Guy. I newer improved version of you will appear, Mr. Confident. You’ll be the man you always wanted to be around women. A confident man who easily navigates the world of dating and succeeds!
Confidence is an exponential curve. The less confidence you have in yourself the more confidence you lose. The more confidence you gain the more shyness you lose. This curve grows faster and faster until it’s no longer a slow process but it either dive bombs to the floor of shyness or sky rockets to the roof of confidence. All it takes to control this curve in your life is to practice a few confidence building techniques.
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. Its not a talent. It’s a skill that can be learned and developed. Confidence building techniques will train your mind to think the right way. It’s obvious that you didn’t know how to drive a car when you were born. You learned to drive that car. Whether you drive to the grocery market or whether you drive in a race is up to you.
What is confidence and how can I know I have it?
Confidence is an attitude that stays in your mind that says you can do, be, or have anything you set your mind to get. It’s a way of thinking; a lifestyle attitude; a state of being. How you think about yourself and others shows. When you have confidence you’re not worried, you don’t doubt yourself, you speak freely and easily, you make people laugh, you make them comfortable to be around you, you can easily lead the conversation in the direction you want it to go, you’re a pleasure for people to be around.
Because you make women comfortable and talk with them and especially because you make them laugh you’ll have women clamoring to give you their phone number. Make a woman comfortable with herself and she’ll want to keep having that experience again and again. Of course, if you lack confidence it’s fairly easy to fix. Just start practicing some confidence building techniques and you’ll become that confident man you want to be.
Ok, so tell me what I can do to build my confidence already!
The first thing you’ll want to do is to step out of your comfort zone. The only way to achieve confidence is to go grab it by the horns and make it your own. What you’re doing isn’t working. Sure, it’s comfortable but it isn’t getting you what you want. You’re going to have to try new things; new confidence building techniques, so just accept that you’re going to be uncomfortable for a while. It’s like building stronger biceps. If you want bigger muscles you have to stress them. No pain, no gain, bro.
Secondly you have to know your abilities. Even if you lack the confidence to approach and deal with women I’m sure you have confidence in other areas of your life. Maybe you’re great at your job or you play a mean game of basketball. You already have a natural confidence in those areas. How did you get confident there? Use those same confidence building techniques to deal with your lack of confidence in dating.
You know what they say about how to get good at something…practice, practice, practice. Of course you’re going to stumble a bit when you first start using new confidence building techniques. You fell a few times learning to walk. Probably crashed a few times learning to ride a bike. Almost nobody is perfect the first time they do anything. It gets easier the more you do it. So, pick a place to practice or several places. Go to another city where if you get embarrassed nobody will know you and nobody will care. Just practice until you’re comfortable.
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