Bad boys. Women love them. What is it that they like so much? Quite simply it’s the attitude and the personality that the bad boy projects. Now, if the he has money to boot, well, that’s a real perk, but not a necessity (think of the women you’ve seen with guys you know have a bad boy reputation, but aren’t loaded with cash).
Here’s a few tips to help you cultivate your bad boy persona.
Be relaxed and confident
Nearly half of the appeal of the bad boy is that he is relaxed with himself and confident in himself. Don’t be constantly worrying about how you look or whether or not she’ll like how you look. You come off looking wimpy and worried. Be confident in who you are and what you’re about. If you’re an accountant and crunch numbers every day, don’t be intimidated by someone who’s more physical. They can’t do what you do. Your confidence comes from knowing who you are and that your special.
Recognize a woman’s games and don’t fall for them.
Women like to play little games and test you. It’s to measure you and put some controls on you. This makes her feel safe and secure. Those little games are anathema to the bad boy. He NEVER, EVER lets a woman place her controls on him. He is his own man. If she wants to be with him, then she’s the one who has to measure up by taking him as he is.
Act like you aren’t concerned about getting together with her.
Believe it or not, it’s human nature to desire something that you can’t have. Use this natural urge with women. You don’t have to be rude to get the point across. Just don’t act like you care whether or not you hook up with her. It will make you all the more appealing and she will work to make herself more attractive to you.
Make your life exciting.
If you have interests and hobbies that are a little tame, then get out of your comfort zone and do something more exciting. Learn to water ski or snow ski; take up billiards as a hobby; get involved with a particular style of music or singer and start going to those concerts frequently. As you become more active in this new lifestyle you will acquire stories that you can share with others that will draw people to you. Women in particular love to hear these kind of stories. They live these experiences through your stories.
I think that you’ll find that this ‘bad boy’ attitude is really a pretty easy way to go. Try it and see how it works for you.