We’ve all seen them – the super confident guys. They seem to be a breed unto themselves. With confidence in themselves and their abilities, they project this attitude everywhere they go. And women love this type of confidence.
Do you think that this is something that they have naturally and you don’t? Well, I’ve got some good news for you. You can learn this skill, too. Having this type of confidence is a skill that can be developed, just like developing a muscle.
- The right mindset. The first thing you need to do is develop a mindset that there is no thing as failure. Just opportunities to learn. This is going to take learning to look at your situation from a positive viewpoint instead of a negative viewpoint.
- Practice being confident EVERY MOMENT. That’s right. Practice being confident all the time. Make it the priority of you mind.
- Don’t let you feelings fool you. There will be times when no matter what you do you’re not going to feel confident. That’s OK. Just continue acting like your confident. If nothing else, you’ll at least give the appearance that you’re comfortable with yourself, even if you’re shaking like a leaf inside. Don’t give in to what you’re feeling. This is crucial.
- Talk to anyone and everyone. Confidence comes from an ease and ability to relax around others. So make sure that you talk with everyone, not just women. In this more relaxed atmosphere you can loosen your collar and become more like yourself.
Be POSITIVE. Nothing says ‘confidence’ like a great positive attitude. Being a positive person leads to the way of a lot of opportunities that you would not have been exposed to otherwise. Just being positive, you can change the way people perceive you. All people, not just women. You’ll find that the more positive you are, the more you’ll attract both men and women.