It’s no secret that women want to be with men who know how to act like a man. They like a strong man. Not necessarily a physical Atlas so much, but a man that has strength in his personality. Confident and competent.
Now no one is perfect at everything that they do, but that doesn’t mean you need to turn into a pool of jello because you aren’t perfect at something. Confidence and competence are more attitude than anything else.
Start by listening to yourself. Do you stutter or stammer when nervous? Find ways to overcome this behavior. This is a behavior, not a physical handicap and can be overcome.
Do you say “I don’t know” or “I’m not sure” a lot over simple questions like “what do you want to do tonight” or “where do you want to eat?” STOP THAT! This drives women nuts. If the question of where to go or where to eat comes up and she doesn’t have a preference, then you make the decision. Believe it or not, that’s one of the easiest things to do to show a woman that you can take care of her.
Watch your body language. When standing around in a group of people, keep your head up. Look people in the eye. Smile frequently. These are the signs of a person who is confident and comfortable with himself. A sign of strength all by itself.
Slouching, looking at the floor frequently, nodding like a bobble-head all give off the wrong impression. This type of body language sends all the wrong impressions. You won’t even get to introducing yourself if you look like your looking for worms.
Do yourself a favor. If you don’t know how to dance, learn. Most guys won’t get on the dance floor because they’re too embarrassed. Girls love to dance. This will also make you more confident and help you with your body posture.
Simple, but effective changes like this are key.
And remember, HAVE FUN!