If you’re like a lot of guys, learning how to get girls to like you is one of the hardest things you have to figure out. You’ve tried pick up lines that didn’t work; tried to look like Brad Pitt with no success; most of the time you just end up feeling like an idiot.
If you’re trying to get a girl to like you, then you have to involve something that is more important than looks; more important than some ridiculous pick-up line. You have to involve yourself and build a rapport with her.
Rapport is that part of communication that goes beyond mere talking. It’s the part of communication that builds a connection between a man and a woman.
Here are the easiest steps around for building a rapport with girls.
1. Be positive. Upbeat and happy people are more fun to be around. Positive people literally draw an almost palpable energy, then give it back out to others. Extremely sexy.
2. Be full of energy. Now, you don’t have to go bouncing around the room like a rabbit to display energy. What you do have to do is be engaged and engaging when talking with others. Listen intently. Be enthusiastic on topics that you enjoy. This type of energy is contagious.
3. Be confident. This doesn’t mean you have to know all the answers and have the perfect thing to say at all times. It means that you have belief in yourself and what you do know. If you don’t know something, say so. Don’t try to act like you know about a subject you don’t have a clue about. You’re in idiot territory when you do that.
4. Relax! Girls are wonderful! They don’t want to humiliate you. They WANT to get to know you. Just relax into conversation and begin to build a rapport. This is fun, if you’ll just relax and enjoy yourself.