We all talk to women every day – at work, at the restaurant, while getting coffee, etc. No problem! So how can we guys become as comfortable speaking with a woman socially? Easy, you just need to learn how to talk to women. If you’re at a place where you’ve overcome the hurdle of starting a conversation with a woman, you need to know how to carry that conversation on to the next level. I’m going to give you some tips and insights in the next few sentences to help you keep from having those awkward silences.
Be yourself. Women are completely turned off by someone who is trying to impress them during a conversation. You may be trying to get her to see that you excel in a particular area. That’s not how to talk to women. All she hears is that you aren’t confident in yourself enough to keep from bragging or you lack the skills to talk about anything else. If you’re truly an accomplished person, save that conversation for a later date. Right now just focus on getting to know her.
Back and forth conversation. Begin a conversation talking about something from you point of view, then ask for her point of view. People in general will almost always answer a question that’s been asked. Here’s an example, “I really love the ocean. I have a favorite spot on the beach where I can get the most spectacular views. I get a sense of peace when I’m there. What about you? Where’s your favorite spot?” That’s how to talk to women. You could even follow up with a “how does it make you feel” question for a number of scenarios.
Spice it up a bit. There’s nothing wrong with asking a couple of the safe questions – “what do you do” or “where are you from”. However, if this is the only things your talking about, you’ll find that this sort of conversation is boring. And so will she because women ignore men that don’t know how to talk to women. If she wanted to answer question after question about mundane topics she would speed date. If you’re going to ask questions, make them questions about what her opinions are or what are her interests.
Flirt a little! Women are attracted to guys that are willing to take a bit of a risk. This shows that the man has confidence in himself and in his masculinity. You don’t have to be overtly sexual in order to flirt. Women are naturally attracted to men who know how to talk to women. Just take an extra moment or two to look in her eyes before beginning another sentence. Your body language and demeanor speak louder than your words will ever speak.
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