Do you play golf, basketball, or baseball? If you do then you know that there are times when your play becomes stagnate, even predictable. Sometimes you get into such a rut that the opposing team or players can read you like a book and know what your next move is and defend against you without any problem. Or, you get into such a rut with your swing or shot or throw that you continually make the same mistake. Over and over and over.
Same thing happens with attracting women. You go to the same places, at the same time, with the same people and meet the same women. You use the same techniques, the same style of clothes, even the same after shave. Over and over and over.
You’re in a rut. And that’s bad news.
You’ve got to change that routine! A better way to look at it is you GET to change that routine. Fortunately, changing your routine is a LOT easier than changing you swing or shot. Simply think of what you normally do, and do something different.
Say you go out every Friday night to the same bar. Go someplace different. Someplace you wouldn’t normally go. Check the place out, be friendly and socialize a little. Give yourself a little time to get the feel of this new environment. Then the next week go there again and start making yourself known with some of the ladies. Simple and fairly painless.
Here are some easy tips to make a change in your routines that will help you attract more women more frequently.
- Go different places
- Change the times that you go out
- Try meeting women both out in public and online
- Try a new technique for introducing yourself and starting conversation
Changing your routines has the added benefit of making you a more interesting person with a broader range of experiences to pull from. You’ll like the changes you’ve made and wonder why you didn’t make them sooner.
And remember – HAVE FUN!