There is a very clear formula that will allow you to make the connection with any woman you want. It’s a powerful formula that can be easily mishandled. Just like mishandling nitroglycerine can cause an explosion, mishandling this formula can cause a relationship to blow up in your face. It’s called the 3 Ls: Laugh, listen, lead.
Why laugh, listen, lead? It touches the three parts of a woman. Her heart, her mind, and her soul. You tough her heart when you make her laugh. You touch her mind when you lead. And you touch her soul when you listen. If you can effectively touch all three parts of a woman in way that makes her feel positive you can easily make her fall in love with you.
Laughter is contagious. Just smiling is infectious. When someone smiles it causes you to smile. The act of smiling conveys good feeling and positive attitudes. It’s the first section of our love formula of laugh, listen, lead, and it’s the most powerful way to start. It makes an instant connection. It builds a positive, happy bridge between you and gives you an instant open door to continue to work your relationship magic.
The next stage in our laugh, listen, lead formula is listening. There’s a vast different between hearing and listening. Anyone can hear words and even repeat them. That doesn’t mean they understand. When you listen it’s not a passive thing where you sit still and your ears are active. It’s an active participation.
People are constantly broadcasting their thoughts and feelings. Most people never tune in to listen to them. When you activate the listen portion of our laugh, listen, lead formula you become a powerful force. You hear what she says and what she doesn’t say. You know what she’s sharing with you and you know what she doesn’t give voice to. You’ve probably picked up on what women don’t say fairly frequently. If you want to make her feel like you understand don’t just talk about the things she says but also about the things she doesn’t say. Women NEED to feel understood. Show her you understand and she’ll make the second connection with you.
The final connection with her in our laugh, listen, lead connection formula is lead. Men are leaders by nature. It’s our job to lead. I don’t mean you have to be the President or anything like that. I mean that confident men will naturally guide conversations. They’ll make decisions. They take charge and give guidance, advice, and well, leadership. Women love confident men who are able to lead because it shows them that they’re protected and safe. Once this third connection is made she’s wide open to you. If you can connect on all three levels she’ll never be able to get you out of her mind and she’ll pursue you rather than you having to do all the work.
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