Well the best answer to that question is “It Depends”.
Not every first date should have a kiss involved. If your date has failed miserably you probably don’t want to attempt kissing her. After all you’ll most likely never date her again so why complicate things? End the date as politely as possible and move on with your life.
Another reason not to attempt a kiss on the first date is that some women view this as a test to see how aggressive you are. If you attempt the kiss you may be perceived as being pushy. Other women, however, may see you as too much of a wimp if you don’t at least try. So how can you know what to do? Simple. Let her tell you.
She probably won’t verbalize it. Instead of telling you whether to kiss her or not she’ll show you. Keep your eyes on her body language throughout the entire date. I don’t mean stare at her but keep your eyes and your attention tuned in to what she does.
Has she leaned in while talking to you? Did she touch you while trying to make a point during her conversation with you? Did she move or sit closer to you while you were together? Was there any form of physical contact during the date? These are all signs that she probably wants to be kissed.
They say that the eyes are the window to the soul. It’s very true when it comes to women. If she’s been making direct eye contact with you or is doing so near the end of your date she’s looking for you to recognize that she wants that kiss. If her eyes are moving from your eyes to your lips and back to your eyes again this is a clear invitation to lay one on her.
If she doesn’t want to be kissed you’ll see a remarkable lack of interest from her. Her conversation will be minimal. There will be distance between you both physically and otherwise. She’ll make little to no eye contact.
Listen to her body talk to you and you can’t go wrong.