How A Shy
Japanese Man Approached A
Sexy Blonde In A Dark Alley And Walked Away With Her Phone Number
(This was sent to me a few days ago
and I was so inspired by his newfound confidence - and consequently his success
I asked him if I could show other guys what they're capable of)

Hi Alex,
I ordered your DVD a while ago and watched it a number of times. I
particularly like Stephen's interview and the bonus videos where he
makes moves. I've got both Asian background and non-English speaking
background (I'm originally from Japan, though I've been living in
Australia for 6 years now). It's much easier to relate myself to
Stephen. But of course I like your videos and interview, too. Thanks
for producing such an awesome DVD!
I guess I've been making a slow progress. In order to get myself used
to taking to random strangers, I started with talking to girls working
at cafes and shops alike, trying to ask them unusual questions that
catch their attention, and trying to make them laugh.
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I was in Melbourne for about a week and I came back from there
yesterday. During my stay in Melbourne, I finally made myself move to
the next step, which is to approach to a girl on the street. It took
few months for me to move on to this step, but I'm glad I finally did
and I enjoyed it! Please let me share my story with you.
The Story:
I met this girl from Sydney in an alleyway full of graffiti. This
place seems to be a bit of a touristy spot, so, there were a few
others and it didn't look dangerous or anything. She was taking photos
with a proper SLR camera. I found her attractive, and I liked the way
she took photos. So, I decided to approach her. I said to her, "excuse
me, but would you mind if I took photos of you taking photos? I like
the way you take photos". I thought that would be a funny but
interesting question to ask.
And we started a conversation. I'm glad that your "what do you do? I
don't want to hear it if it's dirty" thing worked very well. It's good
to see it work! We showed to each other some photos we've taken
respectively - leaning towards one another. I also noticed she twirled
her hair a few times. I think we've talked about nearly 15-20 minutes.
But upon reflection, I guess I asked interview questions too much when
I could ask deeper, rapport building questions or do a cool handshake
or whatever. Maybe that's what I needed. Actually, it was she who
asked me if I've got a e-mail address... so, that's a very good sign,
I take it? Instead of e-mail, I got her phone number, because I wanted
to catch up with her during my stay in Melbourne. I asked how to spell
her name, and hand my phone to her. In my mind at that time, I was
thanking you, Alex! It's probably really easy to get a phone number
from a girl you've met on the street.
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Anyway, she was to leave Melbourne on the same day as me, and we had
only two days left. I called her on that day, and she said she will
call me on Friday, because she wasn't sure of her schedule yet, as it
depended on whether her friend can take a day off from work or
something like that. I didn't get any call and she didn't answer to
my calls. She sent me an sms, apologizing she didn't call me and
saying that she's been busy with her friend (not a boy, but a girl, by
the way). We had a couple of sms correspondences after that, but I
guess I lost the battle.
But the good thing is that I can tell what I was missing thanks to
your DVD and other videos and blog entries of yours. Actually, I think
I should have asked her out when we were having a good conversation.
Instant date at a cafe or something. Also, I didn't tell her
reasonably explicitly that she seems to be an interesting person and I
want to get to know her more. Another element is that I was lacking in
rapport building moves or that I didn't make enough moves as such. I
really enjoyed the experience, and I will do this more regularly.
Thank you again, Alex. You've been helping me a lot!
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