While it’s true that women want a confident man, they don’t want a braggart. You know the guy. He always talking about what he’s done this in the company, or how much the boss likes him, ad nauseum.
So, how do you portray confidence without bragging? It’s simple. Let your actions speak for you. You don’t have to tell everyone your around how your won over the new client; just start winning them over. The easiest way to do this is to ask them questions about themselves. People love to talk about themselves. There’s nothing nicer in the whole world than hearing the sound of your name being spoken.
When you’ve drawn out some of the stories that others have experienced, then begin slowly to tell about some of the things that your interested in. Be a story-weaver; weave the facts of your life in with some of the stories that others have told. This is how you can show a woman what you’ve accomplished without coming off as a jerk.
Great stories take on a life of their own. When you tell a story, make sure all your facts are correct. This is extremely important when a story starts getting passed around. No doubt it will get back to you one way or another, changed in one way or another.
Great stories are also a lot of fun. Especially when you take the lady that you want to be around the most and entwine a part of her life into a story with you in it as well. Make it a humorous story. That way you can both be in it have some fun at the same time.