Being shy around a woman is a very common occurrence. It’s so common it happens every day. Here are some tips on overcoming that shyness around women.
Change your expectations. When you talk to a woman, are you wanting to have an enjoyable experience or are you going in for the kill? Changing your expectations is the first step to cure shyness. The goal is to enjoy yourself and have a good time with each other. Not to become romantically involved right out of the starting gate.
Decide what it is that you really want. Take time to figure out what you really want, then make an action plan on how to achieve it. This is the complete opposite of going into the relationship without preparing to present yourself. This is detailed planning of what you really want to happen.
“Just Do It” Start talking to different women. This is going to require that you leave your comfort zone and get ready for whatever is in store. You may get rejection; that’s alright. You take the rejection and work to see what went wrong. Then you pull that element out and start again. Once you have gotten to a place where you can talk with a woman without becoming completely tongue-tied, then begin working on an action plan so you can take the relationship to the next level.
That’s everything in a nutshell. It’s all about getting out there and just start talking. Women won’t bite you – they won’t even take a nibble before they get to know you. So stand tall, take in your breath, and talk to women everywhere. They want to talk with you more than you know. Remember these simple rules and you can get a good deal of experience talking with all types of women.