Women are social creatures. They enjoy being in the company of a group far more than being alone when they go out. Here is a strategy for approaching a woman when she is with a group of her friends.
Number One: Identify your Target.
Although this may sound unnecessary, this is the actual first step in the strategy. You’ll see varying degrees of attractiveness in any group, but there are many groups where nearly all the women are extremely attractive. You’ve got to pick one. If you go in to find out who you want to be with the most, and then pick, it’ll be much more difficult.
Number Two: The Rest of the Group.
Now here’s where you make this strategy work. Seduce the rest of the group. Make them all like you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a group of women or a mixed group. Make the group interested in you first before making your approach to your target woman. This isn’t hard. Start out by asking the group a question, an interesting question that allows you to be drawn into their circle. Say something like, “I couldn’t help but hear your conversation. You all seem to know quite a bit about [the subject], so I’d like your opinion on…”. Or another approach is, “Hey! You all seem to be having a good time. Mind if I buy you a round of drinks and join you?” Bottom line: You have to make the group like you first.
Number Three: Personalities in the Group.
In any group you have leaders and followers. That’s a no-brainer. But in this type of group you have another category which may put a snag in your approach – other guys. Especially if one of them is dating your target woman. If you find that’s the case, simply move on. It’s not worth the hassle and effort. But, if that isn’t the case, then go ahead and work with the guys first. Make sure they are comfortable with your presence in the group. Then start working on the women.