Now, we all know that to meet a woman, build interest and attraction, then actually get her number takes a some time, some practice, sometimes even some courage. However, what makes it all work is persistence. Doing it again and again.
Getting the her number, address, or email is the goal of all that effort. Following through to make sure you get that information is absolutely essential. It’s at this point that some guys drop the ball.
This technique is one of the simplest and most effective way to increase your number of dates. It will amaze you by the sheer simplicity and sense it makes when you hear it.
Call her and make a date.
Before you start saying “Well, that’s a no-brainer”, consider how many times you’ve heard that backing off from a woman is one of the best techniques for building attraction. That’s true when you are in the same place, at the same time, and you’re actively working on building that attraction. But not after the evening is over.
Most women lead very active lives. They have their work, their friends, their family, and even pets, that take a portion of their day. At this point, you’re on the bottom of the list and the quickest one to get kicked off this list. By calling her you place yourself squarely in the top portion of her days.
Here are some advantages that she’ll consider when you call her:
- You really are interested in her. This is takes the guesswork out.
- You’re thoughtful and considerate. You didn’t play a cat and mouse game with her, and she’ll immediately note this.
- This will boost her confidence and ego. Everyone needs to believe they are worth a little effort.
By simply calling her and setting up a date you will immediately have her attention.
This one proactive step WILL increase the number of dates you have on a consistent basis if you follow through with it.